We would like to wish all of the moms out there a happy mother's day!! We are currently at the hospital waiting for them to move Trey to the PICU. We thought this wouldn't happen until tomorrow, but the plan changed for some reason. This move is definitely bittersweet: we know that this should help Trey get healthy, he is getting to be a big boy. But, we will miss the NICU. I know this seems weird, that we could miss such a place, but it is definitely sad leaving. Leaving the place where both Stella and Trey spent the beginning of their lives is tough because usually when you leave the NICU you are going home. One of the biggest reasons this is so difficult is the fact that we are "leaving" some great people. We have been blessed to get to know countless nurses, docs, and respiratory thearapists that have some of the biggest hearts possible. It goes without saying that we will miss all of them. (Even though we will see some of them down stairs) Luckily we don't consider this a "goodbye", we consider it a "see you later". There is no doubt that we will continue to stay in touch with many of the people we have met, and we have also made some lifelong friends.
Trey had a pretty good day. He had a line placed in his leg and did a wonderful job. The rest of the day has been rather uneventful, which isn't a bad thing. The grandparents left this morning after having a Mother's Day breakfast at IHOP. (Mama Beth's new favorite --> "it's like breakfast and dessert all in one! It's awesome.) Stella is also great, her and dad fell asleep watching golf before we returned to the hospital.
I know I may be biased, but I would be remiss to not talk about one of the best mom's in the world: Bethann. There are many reasons:
1. Being the greatest advocate possible for her kids.
2. Pumping for 18 weeks and counting when she has hated it since week 1.
3. Continuing to be strong when the majority of us would be in counciling.
4. Being here day after day, especially when I couldn't be here.
5. Continuing to worry about things at home.
6. Still organized enough to pay the household bills, even though I said I would do it!
7. Working on minimized sleep! (Beth used to love her sleep)
8. Staying positive, even in the bleakest of times.
9. Remembering that we need to smile.
10. jkkl.;tfgn l;ou7jmn (that was Stella stomping on the keyboard, well said sweetheart!)
I could go on and on, but everyone sees the point. Bethann is the love of my life, and the best mom ever. Although this has not been the most ideal first mother's day, I would not trade her or our little angels for anything in the world. Her love keeps the four of us together and on the right track.
Beth, we love you!
-Stella, Trey, and Randy
Happy Mother's Day.
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You guys are soulmates and have created beautiful children.! I might sound like a broken record but, you guys are truly inspirational with your positive outlook on life and unwavering love for each other and your children:). Stella and Trey could not ask for better parents. You guys were meant for each other!
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I agree with Caroline - I think you both are incredible!!! you both are doing a great job with the blog - I'm glad to see Stella already putting her say in - good girl!
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hugs & kisses to all
Patti, Hank & Haley
Ran, I think we may all be biased then:) It is so hard being a new mom and I cannot imagine going through what you guys have been through over the past six months. Beth you are an incredible mom and it is easy to say you do what you have to do and wouldnt do anything differently for the sake of your family but you are truly amazing. You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers daily. We love you!
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